Maybe I have the wrong approach to how to post on a forum.
When I am somewhere with friends, such as having a punt or a feed, you say things that if you say the same on a forum people take offence.
I know people of all colours and types and say things that you can say to friends and they don't take offence but have a shot at someone on the forum and people like Chuggers step in to chastise.
I think I got a warning for calling someone a dirty old man and a few people were horrified. Hello. Get out in the real world instead of hiding in your study behind a keyboard and see what normal people say. .
I've met some nice people on this forum that I like a laugh with but there are a couple that I just laugh at.